Wednesday, February 7, 2007

What are Your Traditions?

Have you ever dreaded having to prepare for a party or feast? There have been times that all I could think of was the work and how completely exhausted I was going to be when it was all over. I have become more comfortable with this as feasting has become part of our weekly life. I have learned to prepare as much as possible ahead of time and I have become more comfortable in trying new things. I do not come from a family that is big on traditions. It was just not important. As I have started feasting traditions in our home, it has become very important that my children not only carry these traditions, but that they love them. I have come to enjoy the preparation and hard work, because I see the joy my family gets from it. As I have become more comfortable with this, it has carried over into other parts of our lives. I try to make every holiday and birthday a big deal. This blog is primarily about Sabbath feasting, but I think you will soon find that celebrations will be a bigger part of your life as you become more familiar with pulling them off. So let's share our celebration traditions. Valentines's Day is coming. How do you celebrate? As much as I would love to prepare a huge romantic feast, we have a different tradition. The male gender rules in our home. This is the holiday that they treat Sarah and myself. Bruce and I will celebrate another night. The guys will take the ladies out to dinner. It will be very child friendly. Isaac will choose the place. Last year it was Cracker Barrel. No long lines there on Valentine's Day. I have heard whisperings of Friendly's this year. As they get older I am sure the resturaunts will be a little more adult. I could never change this tradition. We rarely dine out as a family. It is too expensive. They look foward to this a soon as Christmas is over. Please share your traditions with us.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

We have a tradition in our home where the boys present each femanle with a long stemmed rose.

Julie said...

Great tradition! Your boys should learn to acknowledge the ladies in their lives in a special way.

Julie

Anne said...

Aloha Julie. Thanks for checking in on my blog and letting me know who you are. I met you at teacher training? Small world! I hope to go again this summer, so we'll have to officially meet. Some folks from my church (and the church's school) were just there this week touring classical schools, and they met your husband.

I came across your blog a week or so ago through Abondante Living. Will definitely be checking in on it regularly. We started Sabbath dinners after I heard Nancy Wilson speak last summer. We're still working on the dinners, trying to figure out our own style and traditions.

Anyway, very nice to "meet" you! :-)

Julie said...

Thanks for responding. My husband did mention some guys from Hawaii sitting in on his Omnibus class. It was after teacher training last year that we decided to give Sabbath feasting anonther try. WE had quit because I was overwhelmed with pulling it off every week. I was given the incredible opportunity of sitting down with Nancy over to dinner to discuss feasting. She gave me several ideas of how to feast with small chidren and doing it on a budget. After I realized that it can look different in everyone's home, I was less stressed and now even look foward to all of the preparation and time with the family.
Look foward to seeing you this summer!